Insight - Strategy - Communication
John Oxley
Wedding Speeches
The perfect words for the big day
It's the happiest day of your life, and you are worried about getting it right.
Perhaps you are the Best Man, and want to hit the perfect tone for your mate.
Maybe you are the father of the bride, and can't find the words to celebrate your daughter.
For people who are not used to public speaking, standing up in front of the people you care about most can be a daunting prospect. I work with you to find the perfect words to convey what you feel.
Fees start from £250.
“You captured my personality and presented to me a fantastic speech. I would recommend you to anyone that requires your services. Thank you so much for making my daughter's big day extra special.”
Father of the Bride Client
Crafting a wedding speech can often feel daunting, with the pressure to create something memorable and impactful. Whether you are the groom, best man, or father of the bride, my goal is to help you deliver a speech that feels personal, authentic, and truly reflective of your unique relationship. Together, we will create a speech that combines thoughtful anecdotes, emotional depth, and the right tone to resonate with your audience.
The process begins with an in-depth consultation where I take the time to understand your story, personality, and the specific tone you wish to convey. Throughout this process, I ensure that your voice is preserved and that your speech remains authentic and meaningful. I will guide you through every step, incorporating the personal details that make your speech truly special and structuring your story into a meaningful and memorable speech.
For clients with dyslexia or those who may struggle with writing, I offer tailored support to ensure the process is as seamless as possible. I understand the challenges that come with putting words onto paper, and I will work closely with you to transform your ideas into a polished, impactful speech that you can deliver with confidence.
Whether you require a lighthearted and humorous speech or a more heartfelt and emotional address, I take care to craft something that suits your personality and the tone of the occasion. My aim is to ensure that your speech is not only something you can deliver with ease, but something you will cherish for years to come.
Frequently Asked Questions
1 / How much does a speechwriter cost?
Fees are determined by the length of the speech and the level of independent research required. Before beginning the process, I will provide you with a bespoke cost. Fees start at £250.
2 / How does the process work?
After your initial enquiry, I will discuss your speechwriting requirements with you. I will then provide a fully costed quotation. We will then have a longer call, for about an hour, to discuss content and tone. This helps me to understand your message, but also how you communicate and your voice. I then produce a first draft of the speech, and make any edits you need until you are happy with it. Finally, I provide a completed draft in whatever form makes things easiest for you - like notecards.
3 / How much notice do you need?
Normally, it takes around two weeks to produce a speech from first meeting to final draft. I also recommend you have the speech ready at least one week before you are due to give it, so that you have time to rehearse. Subject to availability, I do also offer an express speechwriting service for events less than 7 days away. This will incur an extra prioritisation fee.
4 / Can you coach me on how to speak?
Yes! With every speech writing commission, I provide some basic advice and tips on how to give the speech. I also offer specialist coaching on presentation as an additional service. This is charged by the hour, in addition to the speechwriting fee. Again, this will be agreed in advance.
5 / Do we need to meet in person?
All my speechwriting services are "remote first" and we will usually meet via videocall. If you prefer to meet in person, I will do my best to facilitate it. If you are outside of London Zones 1 & 2, this will incur extra charges for travel time and expenses. These can be discussed in full at the outset.
6 / Why hire a speechwriter?
By hiring me, you get more than just words. You get someone who understands your story and your voice. I can take what you want to say and craft it into a structure which is fluid and natural for you. You may think that an online template or AI software can do this for you, but these will only give you generic outputs. With an experienced speechwriter, you get something bespoke for you and your event.